There are stages to moving across the world, away from everything that you are familiar with. They do not necessarily go in order, and they do often fluctuate. I call them; the "What stage", "The Oh I Know This stage", "The I Don't Want To Do This Anymore stage", and lastly, "The I Can Do This stage". When it comes to Holiday Season, these four stages definitely come into play stronger than ever. When it comes to not being able to go home for the holidays, the stages hit full speed. However, there is a way to make the "I Can Do This stage", the winning stage.